During this 5-day Journey, we will walk through a proven faith based approach so you can navigate feelings of fear, shame, self-doubt and REDISCOVER WHO YOU ARE after divorce.

Meet Andrea.

Andrea is a Daughter of God, a wife, mom, bonus mom & grandma. She is a Certified Health, Life, & Enneagram Coach. She is also a Certified Freedom Coach which means she is trauma informed, Biblically sound and Holy Spirit led. Over the 50+ years of her life, she has experienced cycles of shame, guilt, self-condemnation that have crippled her from being the best version of herself. She has been divorced twice and has leaned into the Healing Power of God Almighty through these life traumas and experiences. Here is some of her story:

“I have been a believer in Jesus since I was 8 years old. Sadly, there were just so many times in my life that I was not living “victorious” in Christ…like I thought I SHOULD HAVE been…or had heard others talk about. I felt that in order to be a “real” Christian, I was not really supposed to have issues or struggles that other people had so I kept it quiet and hid behind many masks. I was lying to myself as much as I was other people. When I did struggle, I always felt like I was bad, or being punished by God for not living “right”. My thoughts were that I was a bad Christian…and probably not even saved. I felt so much shame around the sins I wrestled with that I internalized what was happening in my life. I was hiding from others and from myself. I wanted to hide from God too…but knew that was impossible.

I married young and continued to hide behind the masks of performance that I had gotten so used to wearing. Stress and overwhelm always followed me and I seriously felt dark inside of myself. Life was messy and I didn’t know how to deal with the failure I was experiencing inside of me. I poured myself into my job because I didn’t feel I was failing there. Performance & achieving made me feel better….at least for a little while. In my personal and home life, I found myself reeling in cycles of resentment and mental chaos more often than I ever wanted to admit. I wore shame and self-condemnation like clothing. It seemed like all I did was hide behind my smile. I felt like I was drowning in fear, confusion, dread, anxiety, guilt, shame….when I looked in the mirror, I had no idea who I was….or why I was even here. Basically, I was just a shell of a person. I was angry a lot but just stuffed it way down deep inside. I knew I was not being the mom, wife or woman that God intended me to be but I felt powerless to fix it.

My first marriage failed…and so did my second.  I became desperate to figure out what was wrong with me….why was I failing at relationships and love…and life? Why was this a big black cloud surrounding me? One day, in 2012, I finally had enough, I decided to try something I had never tried before. I decided to REALLY look at who God made me to be and why. I decided to take REAL steps toward healing and it transformed my life. There was no way this could be done without my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. It took a while but as I began to pull back the layers of my story, I realized where trauma and damage had entered and how it played out….how I had made meaning and beliefs out of circumstances in life…and I had allowed those things to control me. It was time to stop with the victim mentality and DARE TO BECOME THE BEST ME…AFTER DIVORCE! Holy Spirit gave me Truth…not my truth, but HIS truth. The last 12 years have been a journey of healing, transformation and learning to co-author my story with God. My relationships have gotten deeper and better and WAY more fulfilling. In 2016, I graduated from Colorado Christian University with a bachelors degree in Psychology! A degree that I had started in 1992! I started following Jesus instead of just being a fan of His. I kicked shame to the curb and learned how to deal with the anger that was raging inside. Self condemnation has taken a seat to freedom and joy! I began to triumph over the “calling killers” and live victoriously in Jesus Name!”

As Andrea began to heal her own story of trauma, damage and sin, she realized that God was calling her to help others heal from similar stories of rejection, betrayal, isolation, anxiety, frustration, overwhelm, people pleasing, perfectionism, abandonment and more. This life on earth is not easy...in fact, it's the opposite. But Jesus came to give us life and freedom from the lies and bondage of the enemy. Andrea desires to love and help others through their healing journey. She desires to get to the root of the cycles you are struggling with because she believes that you are meant to be the BEST version of yourself that you can possibly be on this earth. God has written your destiny on your bones and the enemy cannot destroy that.

It's time to DARE TO BECOME YOUR BEST SELF! YES - even AFTER divorce!!!!

FAQs

You mentioned Relationship Type… what is the modality used to find this?

The modality used to find your relationship type is a Biblical Based approach to the Enneagram.

How does the Enneagram align with biblical teachings?
The Enneagram is a tool for self-awareness and personal growth that can complement biblical teachings by providing insights into human nature and behavior. While the Enneagram itself is not explicitly mentioned in the Bible, its principles of understanding personality dynamics, fostering compassion and empathy, and promoting spiritual transformation resonate with many biblical themes, such as love, grace, forgiveness, and redemption.

What if I can't attend all the sessions live?
No worries! All sessions will be recorded and available in the Facebook Group you will join upon signing up for the 5-day Journey. You'll have access to the recordings, as well as any additional materials or resources shared during the sessions for a few days, so you can participate in the 5-day Journey at your own pace. We encourage you to engage with the content in a way that best fits your schedule and preferences, knowing that the insights and wisdom shared will be valuable whenever you choose to tune in.